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  in Relationships | Published 2013-04-10 15:07:29 | 208 Reads | Unrated


When you go through a break up, you feel like your whole life is just over However, for many couples out there, there is a chance that you will get back together

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When you go through a break up, you feel like your whole life is just over. However, for many couples out there, there is a chance that you will get back together. For some, it may take some time, but you can do some things to get that ex of your back in no time. It may not work for everybody, but for most exes, they will come crawling back to you with no question, if you just follow these five steps on how to win your ex back.

Step # 1: Let your Ex Go

After a breakup, the first thing that is needed to do is, to give them space. If you k
eep bugging them and going on and on, they are going to get aggrevated with you more and more. You won't get anywhere this way. Giving them space will make them realize just how much they miss you and need you. Your ex will be the one who comes back to you. Because if you make him or her think you do not care, it will drive them crazy. It is a proven fact.

Step # 2: Hang out with other people

Now is the time to start hanging out with people that you haven't seen in a while. This will keep you from sulking in your bedroom and from driving yourself crazy by thinking about what the other person is doing. Your friends and family can also give you some advice on the situation. Your ex may even notice that you have a new found independant side to you and then want to get back with you. This tends to work also because your ex may think you have somebody else your seeing. Jelousy tends to work, when you are trying to get an ex back.

Step # 3: Think About Why You were Together

This is a very important step, when you are wanting to get your ex back. You need to sit back and evaluate why you were together in the first place. This way, when you reconnect, you can get back to this way of life. Your ex may have loved one specific trait about you and you may have quit doing that one thing. If you get back in contact, start doing that one thing or talk about that one thing. He or she may see that your willing to go back to the way it used to be. Sometimes that is all it takes. They fell in love with you for a reason. Go back to that time.

Step # 4: Time to Get into Contact

After space is given and you have some time to yourself and they have some time to themselves, now it is time to get back into contact. Slowly get back into their presence by having a dinner together, or meeting for a drink. Trying to move back in together will just rush things. So, if your ex is willing to meet, this will show that they are wanting to see if you have changed. This gives you the chance to show them that you have. If the date goes good, this is a start to getting back together.

Step # 5: Starting over with your Ex

Start off slow. Quickly getting back into the relationship with your ex can go straight into old habits. You have to remember that you have told yourself not to go back to those old habits and you have to show them why they fell in love with you in the first place. Try not to ask many questions about the break up. For example, do not ask who your ex slept with. This will only make him or her mad. It does not matter, because you were broke up. Just start over and it should be a great reconcile.

If getting your ex back is so important to you, you have to make the best effort to show them that you have changed and they are worth trying to get back together with. Show them that you are willing to try anything to win them back. If for some reason, when you meet up, it doesn't work, then that just goes to show you that it just wasn't meant to be. Hopefully that is not the case, and you and your ex will be so "in love" in no time. Following these five steps will be a start to getting back into the arms of that ex of yours.

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